Well, at least for me and some men… I’m not referring to VIP rooms where dancers might do “extras” (e.g., hand jobs, blow jobs, and more). Some dancers are very skilled at grinding across clothing and simulating sex, and I can consistently climax during good lap dances. I was shocked when this first happened many years ago with a cute, petite Asian dancer. She obviously knew what she was doing. My pants were soaked, and she acknowledged the climax with a guided extra squeeze of her b-cups.
This experience was a revelation to me, since I’ve never even had good, normal sex. This was the beginning of many trips to strip clubs, providing business to dancers who can make me climax with lap dances. The dances felt comfortable, without need to undress or maintain solid erection for intercourse. I can pick which ever girl I’m in the mood for. The dancers and clubs were appreciative of my business. I never made more than one trip a week, which kept the hobby affordable.
I do acknowledge this hobby affected my motivation for a normal dating life. As with porn, many have pointed to reduced motivation for normal sex as a “terrible” side effect. For many years, I have struggled with this conflict. However, I only feel this conflict when I compare myself with others who seek more normal sexual relationships. Life paths differ greatly across people, and sex is a significant but not a majority part of these paths.
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